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Locktober Chastity Celebration

“The body achieves what the mind believes.”

To celebrate this locktober, Sir Zuegi is requiring His boy to be locked and to reflect on chastity service throughout the month. Sir Zuegi and His boy s37 will each answer the following questions about their chastity experience. Enjoy, and hope you are having a great locktober!

How did you first start playing with chastity?

Sir Zuegi: With my boy when he presented the idea before our D/s dynamic began. I enjoyed the feeling of him being locked unable to experience orgasm and I experimented with it also so I understand the mental and physical control it takes.

boy s37: In my early 20s with a CB-6000 device. Still have one of the devices for nostalgia. This boy would frequently self lock, and sometimes lock for a keyholder.

What has been your biggest learning experience with chastity?

Sir Zuegi: Learning how to read and understand my boys capacity with chastity.

boy s37: Learning to wear it 24×7. At first, sleeping in chastity was near impossible – the pain from wood in the middle of the night was unbearable. Lots of vasaline and baby oil. Today, this boy can sleep through the night in chastity with little to no pain/discomfort.

What is your favorite aspect of chastity control?

Sir Zuegi: Knowing that my boy is caged and that he feels my control over his cock.

boy s37: Currently, the control over the device itself. This boy is not allowed to ask Sir to wear it, and Sir controls when and if His boy is in it. Often, the times without the chastity device are the most difficult, because this boy has grown used to the security and feeling of it.

What is a new chastity experience you’d like to try?

Sir Zuegi: Release without removing the cage.

boy s37: More trigger based lock/unlock periods based on how this boy has performed towards specific goals or targets. Have always liked the idea of chastity being dependent on specific outcomes that are of interest and please my Dom.

What advice do you have for someone just starting out with chastity?

Sir Zuegi: Begin slowly. It’s a path of mind over matter.

boy s37: take it slow, and enjoy every aspect/moment of the experience. It takes a lot of time to adapt, and enjoyment comes from the journey and learning along the way.

Final thoughts: boy s37 would like to thank Sir Zuegi for allowing His boy to participate in locktober this year, and for making this boy present and aware of his chastity service for Sir.

What role does chastity play in your dynamic? Are you participating in locktober, and if so, how?

Approved for posting by Sir Zuegi.

October 19, 2025
Navigating My Kink Journey: Finding Authenticity

Success comes from curiosity, concentration, perseverance and self-criticism. – Albert Einstein

I have had many new experiences in the last 60 days, each of which could be its own blog entry. I appeared in full formal leather uniform in public with Sir for the very first time in March! I volunteered for a local Avatar leather club BDSM play party – which was my first time ever volunteering for a leather event or attending a public play party! My Sir and I participated in a local community leather social get together to meet folks in our local community. And, we attended CLAW 25 in Cleveland, where I saw a spectacular presentation on boxing which absolutely blew my mind (who knew there were others that shared a boxing/fight kink)! I even learned some new fast and quick rope tie bondage techniques which really piqued my bondage interests.

And, you ask, how do I feel about all of this? OVERWHELMED!

Let’s start back at the beginning…. back in mid 2024, I joined a book club hosted by the Chicago Leather Archive & Museum, and I committed to reading and reviewing three books – Real Service by Raven Kaldera & Joshua Tenpenny, Protocols – A Variety of View: A Power Exchange Resource Book by Bob Rubel & L.C. Morgynn and The Deep Psychology of BDSM and Kink by Douglas Thomas. What transpired after this new learning has been a rapid pace and aggressive growth journey that I still find myself on to this day. From all of this new learning, I concluded that I need to be more authentic with myself and that I need to pursue my full identity by embracing leather.

I have been kink-positive my entire adult life. I’d pull out my kink identity just long enough to fulfill a need and then quickly retreat back to my socially acceptable buttoned-up adult self. I think a lot of younger kinksters probably identify with this – it is what many of us do to maintain an interest in kink while keeping it neatly compartmentalized. But, what characteristic traits are we shutting out by repeatedly denying ourselves the freedom of expression and an ability to live authentically?

Flash forward to CLAW 25, and I had the pleasure to attend a talk titled, History and Legacy of Leather Clubs in the United States by Jake Woods and Dr. X-Ray. Their presentation covered leather club history from 1885 to present. This was a damn good presentation, and what stuck out for me was the repeating themes – the need for belonging, brotherhood and camaraderie. 140 years have passed, but little has changed as far as the same basic human needs – a sense of belonging and a need for self expression and camaraderie.

The journey that I am on to find my leather self is presenting me with many complex challenges and emotions. I have put a lot of pressure on myself to make this transformation real and to get results. There is also a sense of urgency brought on by our ever changing politically charged world. But, as much as I like to be in control of things – I am not in control of when or how this is going to happen. During the leather club presentation at CLAW, Jake Woods asked the audience, “Where are you on your leather journey?” – and a giant light bulb went on in my head! I am on this journey – I am seeking new learning – I am building new connections – I am in the struggle working hard at making change!

So, what have I learned, you ask? Sometimes you have to slow down to speed up. I need to take more time to feel, to sense and to let these new experiences wash over. As much as I want to control this journey – that’s just not the way this works. This journey controls you. You make yourself vulnerable enough and open enough – and the change happens. Trust in the process 🙂

April 28, 2025
Bootblacking: Elevating the Experience
“Nothing ever becomes real till it is experienced.” – John Keats

Both my Dom and I enjoy boots and boot worship a lot! He likes to wear them, and I like to be under them 😉 So much so that I have taken up bootblacking and have been learning new skills by caring for all of Sir’s boots and leathers.

Recently, I came across this fun cigar sex post on bsky, and it got me thinking about equivalents for boot worship…

… what would a similar list look like for boot worship? I decided that deserved some time and attention 😈. I wrote this list of ideas from a submissive bootblack perspective (me) – serving Sir’s boots as His bootblack in training – enjoy ~
1. Your bootblack making You a drink or providing You with beers or whiskey during a bootblack session.
2. A bootblack fetching Sir a smoke or lighting His cigar during a session.
3. Your bootblack acting as Sir’s footstool before or after a bootblacking session.
4. Your bootblack tied up or restrained and required to beg to clean Sir’s boots.
5. Allowing my bootblack to unlock his cage and edge himself from time to time during a bootblacking session. (perhaps using shoe grease?)
6. Allowing and encouraging my boy to smell Sir’s boots during a bootblack session.
7. My boy wearing a gas mask and taking in the must/scent of one of Sir’s boots while he cleans them.
8. Sir stroking His cock in front of His boy during a bootblack session. (preferably while His boy is locked in chastity)
9. Allowing boy to worship Sir’s cock and/or balls during a bootblacking session.
10. Spitting on my boy during a bootblacking session.
11. Spitting in my boy’s mouth so he can spit polish Sir’s boots with the saliva.
12. Allowing my boy to stimulate himself by riding a dildo during a bootblack session.
13. Using restraints on a bootblack to make the job more difficult or impossible to complete.
14. Timing a bootblack session as a means to determine the length of an activity or punishment. (perhaps without the boy knowing he is being timed?)
15. Forcing a boy to apply conditioner or grease with his tongue. (with edible non-toxic product)
16. Branding my boy with a footprint (tattoo, sticker, or with a boot print w/ black ink)
17. Writing bootboy/bootblack/bootslut on my boy with a permanent marker.
18. Plugging my boy before, during or after a bootblack session.
19. Fucking my boy during or after a bootblack session.
20. Beating my boy with my newly cleaned boots.
21. Telling my boy he might get fucked depending on the quality of the shine or some other session parameter.
22. Having my boy act as my urinal during a bootblack session.
23. Taking pictures of my boy during a bootblacking session.
24. Having my boy post a pic of my cleaned boots on social media upon completion.
25. Requiring my boy to take Sir to dinner after a bootblacking session with Sir in His newly shined boots.
26. Requiring my boy to do pushups at random times during a bootblack session.
27. Allowing my boy to hump my boots until he orgasms after a bootblack session 😈. <yeah, that happened – TY Sir!>
28. …and the list goes on…
What other ideas do you have – post them in the comments! Have you tried some of these? Share your experience in the comments!
March 20, 2025
Exploring the Art of Bootblacking: A Journey of Connection

“Your connections to all the things around you literally define who you are.” – Aaron O’Connell

My interest with bootblacking is a pretty recent development. I decided I wanted to try my hand at bootblacking after reading the Leatherboy Handbook by Vincent L. Andrews. I felt that leather care and the art of bootblacking would be a good way for me to connect with my need to serve.

I am a pretty geeky guy, and I love anything technical that requires a fair bit of detail. Flash back 20 years and you’d find me in my home darkroom developing film and making photography prints. I love working with my hands, and being part of the process of creating something. Bootblacking satisfies this part of my brain and given me needed focus.

Serving as my Dom’s bootblack has been a deeply rewarding experience. I love connecting with Him through His boots and leathers, and it has created many deeply intimate experiences between us.

I do wish to expand beyond Sir’s boots and try my hand at blacking boots at an event someday. I’m not in a rush to do that, because I have a lot to learn, and I do not wish to short circuit the process – as it is the journey and not the destination. I want to continue working with the products and develop better technique. I also want to meet others in the community that share the same love of service.

My greatest desire is to learn to connect – spiritually – through bootblacking. Not just the application, the buffing and the rubbing – but the emotional and spiritual connection you make with someone while you are caring for them. The feeling through your fingers, the scent of the product mixing with their leathers, and the sensation you feel in that moment while you practice this craft.

Blacking Sir’s boots is often a very erotic experience for me, it is definitely one of the ways I emotionally and sexually connect with Sir. This process makes me want to be my very best for Him – and this gets reflected in the final shine.

I have developed an erotic fixation for Huberd’s shoe grease – Sir knows this well, and He has applied it to my body during scenes – it almost immediately draws out the most amazing sexual endorphins. This is one of my favorite products, and the one I enjoy using the most.

I want to grow as a bootblack. I want to keep connecting with Sir, and I wish to be allowed to eventually take this practice beyond His boots. I also want to try my hand at leathercraft – I have repaired one of His uniform items, and I want to grow that and be able to craft other things from scratch.

Growing as a bootblack has been a fantastic way for me to develop as a service submissive. I also like that bootblacks come in many forms, both sub and Dom. I believe that this practice has given me better discipline, and it is an outlet for my need to serve in some capacity. I feel a deep sense of pride when I have my shine box and Sir sits for this service. The connection we create through this process is really quite special and something I greatly look forward to. Perhaps one day you too will sit before me, and when you do, I will be sure to give it my best – so that you can look your best!

What are your interests in bootblacking – and have you sat for a bootblack? What has the experience been like for you?

March 15, 2025
Embracing BDSM: Navigating Dom/sub Dynamic Challenges

The only person you are destined to become is the person you decide to be. – Deb Sofield

My Dom and I are both kinky people, and we have been since the day we met. In fact, kink is what brought us together from the time we first cruised each other on recon. We each have a vast list of kinks we like, and thankfully, we share many in common. Our interests go well beyond our kinks, and as with most relationships, it requires change and focus to keep up with the changing times. Late last year, we started to embrace BDSM, and specifically the formation of a Dom/sub dynamic between us. While we enjoy leather, sports gear, and a myriad of other fetishes, we had not yet evolved into the arena of full power play dynamics and more pronounced roles as Dom and sub.

Making that switch to a BDSM Dom/sub style relationship dynamic has been no small effort, and we continue to learn, experiment and discover ways to make this work for us. I will share some of my greatest challenges with this as a sub, and reflect on the things I am doing to better myself and our relationship.

Our situation is perhaps a little unique, because we are in a committed long-term relationship that is working to implement pronounced Dom/sub roles. While we have always been into certain aspects of kink play, many of our relationship constructs were more ‘vanilla’ in nature. We do all the things couples like to do, like buying a house, arguing over paint colors, and getting groceries together. Super kinky right?! No, in fact, there are a bunch of mundane normal “life” things that can be pretty boring, stressful and real kink killers. Discussing finances, worrying about a career, planning for healthcare – all real buzz killers. The day to day mechanics of commitment can be challenging at best and can test any relationship.

Now add BDSM to that mix and things get real tricky. Part of that D/s dynamic is being true to your role, and for me that is a submissive leatherboy. I’m a pretty short fused submissive with a decent amount of self confidence and a love of managing and controlling many things in my day to day life. Knowing how to be submissive and how to let go of having full control is a real challenge for me, because frankly, I am not entirely subservient in all ways. At times, that has left me questioning my role – am I really a submissive if I can be so controlling? Sexually, I’m a bottom, but that doesn’t directly imply total submissiveness. After many years of soul searching, I have concluded that yes, I am submissive, but with some real quirks. What truly motivates me is being controlled by outside influences, and one of those key influencers is my Dom. Deep down, I want to please, and I crave that feeling of doing and achieving for someone else.

Knowing you are a submissive and acting like one is two different things. We’ll be going through our day to day lives, with me wearing my collar as a symbol of Sir’s ownership and my commitment to Him, but I still veer off path. We’ll be doing housework or some other mundane task, and I will push back or be argumentative. Why? Because I’m an opinionated human with faults, but this action almost always kills my submissive headspace and just makes me feel lost and disconnected. So, why do I do it – why does it happen over and over? It is habit and we humans tend to fall back to what we know regardless of how it makes us feel. Even though it degrades my headspace and works against everything I am working hard to achieve, it happens over and over. And, it doesn’t just create challenges for me, it creates role challenges for my Dom. So, how does one resolve this?

They say the first step is to fixing something is admitting you have a problem. So, here we are, step one – check. The next step is putting effort into correcting the problem. A hallmark of BDSM and the D/s dynamic is behavior modification – or more specifically, behavior emulation of a desired role. I desire to be a better sub, one that is easier to live with, one that obeys, and one that works really hard to earn Sir’s trust and respect. To achieve that in a 24×7 dynamic, means respecting and honoring the little things – the really mundane stuff like making the bed, which Sir requires of His boy. It isn’t just the kinky-sexy stuff, but also the little day to day stuff. It’s caring about the details and executing in a way that respects Sir’s wishes and demonstrates the utmost respect for Him and for my role. It is respecting myself and working to achieve outcomes that make me feel good about who I am becoming – His leatherboy.

They say it is the journey and not the destination, and in terms of BDSM, nothing could be more true. We aren’t born who we want to be – we become that image of who we want to be by emulating the behaviors that we most desire to posses. I desire to be less controlling, more caring, and a true leatherboy – mind, body and soul.

There is no perfect solution to this challenge for me yet. So far, I have learned to observe and to communicate. Through these practices, I grow closer to my goal, and with time and energy, I believe our D/s dynamic will grow stronger. I wouldn’t trade this growth opportunity and all of its challenges for anything in the world.

March 7, 2025
Mastering Diet Control: A Day in the Life of boy s37

“Good habits are worth being fanatical about.” – John Irving

I have had many ups and downs with my diet over the years. I have spent much time in the gym lifting weights and putting in the work, all to drive slower than expected results due to poor diet control. Everything you read about diet tends to be complex and difficult to maintain over time. It can be hard to break it all down and figure out how to eat right to support growth. And, what is right for one person might not work the same for someone else. So, implementing diet control, for me, has been challenging to say the least.

My Dom does not directly require diet control per His goals for me. However, in order for me to achieve His approved goals, then I know I must eat in a way that will feed growth and support His desired outcomes. Therefore, getting my diet right is critical for delivering results for Him.

Here, I will share a day in the life of boy s37 from a diet perspective, and how I think about diet and diet tracking. I will then share how we use ‘diet control ’ as part of our D/s dynamic. I will share some of my behind the scenes struggles with dieting, and some of the wants and desires I have related to diet control and submission.

Right after I wake, I consume the first meal of the day – breakfast. If it is a workout day I follow the workout day meal plan, otherwise I follow the non-workout plan which has fewer calories. I use the master meal plan printouts I have posted up in the kitchen as a guide for the 2500 calorie per day meal plan. This is a meal plan I have been using for quite some time, and when I follow it, I get good growth results. Once this meal is consumed, I open my weekly health tracker and mark meal 1 as ‘HIT’ for the day.

At approximately 10am, I prepare and consume the second meal of the day. Again, I follow the meal plan based on whether it is a workout or non-workout day. Generally, this meal is a small to medium red potato, cottage cheese, nuts and a piece of fruit. Once this meal is consumed, I open the health tracker and mark meal 2 as ‘HIT’ for the day.

The 3rd and 4th meals of the day vary depending on whether it is a workout day or not. If it is a workout day, I consume a pre-workout snack and protein as meal 3, and then I consume a spinach, protein, nuts and berry shake for meal 4. If it is a non-workout day, I follow the meal plan as scripted for meals 3 and 4. Once these are consumed, I update the health tracker for these meals.

The 5th meal of the day is dinner and I follow the meal plan’s general guidance for this. Once dinner is consumed, I update the health tracker for meal 5 as ‘HIT’.

About an hour before bed, I prepare the 6th meal of the day. This is a bedtime snack, and it is always greek yogurt with frozen berries. This doesn’t exactly follow the diet guideline, but I enjoy this slight deviation and have been able to make it habitual. Once this last meal of the day is consumed, I update the health tracker for meal 6 as ‘HIT’.

Any meal throughout the day that doesn’t meet the diet guidelines is marked as ‘MISS’. If a meal is missed entirely, then this automatically becomes a ‘MISS’. For each day, I also track hydration. If I generally stay hydrated, then I mark this as a ‘HIT’ for the day. I also track alcohol consumption, and if I consume alcohol as more than just a dinner accompaniment, then this becomes a ‘MISS’ for the day. I generally allow myself one to two glasses of wine with dinner, and I do not count this as a miss.

So, with six meals per day plus alcohol and hydration, that makes 8 things to mark as either HIT or MISS each day. So, in any given week, I am tracking 8*7=56 diet entries as ‘HIT’ or ‘MISS’. Notice that I am not tracking calories and other macro nutrients. This has greatly simplified my ability to track this and remain compliant. Simplicity is the key to successful diet control.

This diet plan has worked well for me, but there are a number of challenges. I used to have a bad habit of missing meals 3 and 4 on workout days, because I just don’t have enough time to eat all those meals and workout. Therefore, I tweaked workout days to combine meals 3 and 4. The other complication is reporting honestly. Say I go out for dinner, have a decent steak dinner, but eat fries with it. Do I count this as a ‘HIT’ since it was mostly in line with my diet? If I’m being honest with myself and with my Dom, then I count this as a MISS because those fries are not compliant with my meal plan. My other issue is alcohol. Alcohol makes me tired and dehydrated the next day, and I tend to miss diet meals after drinking. I have learned that I must limit alcohol consumption in order to stay focused, positive, and making gains.

The other issue is disruptions to the pattern of eating and tracking. If I’m travelling for work or for leisure, then all hell breaks loose, and it is extremely hard to maintain diet. If I know I’m not going to be able to remain compliant on certain days or for certain meals, then I mark them as ‘NA’ – not applicable – and I don’t track them. I always confirm with Sir when I am marking days or meals as NA that way He is aware that His boy is intentionally skipping tracking. Racking up a bunch of MISS’es when traveling can trigger a failure loop, and failure tends to beget more failure, so I avoid this situation whenever possible to remain positive and compliant.

So, you’ve read this far, and maybe you are starting to wonder exactly how all of this is part of a Dom/sub dynamic? Each month, I report to Sir the percentage of meals that met diet compliance. You will find this information on my monthly measures trend, under ‘Monthly Diet Adherence’. Sir then determines if my performance was inline with the expectations that He sets and communicates to me each month as part of our monthly check-in scene. As an example, Sir has given His boy a goal of 85% for February 2025, and if I hit that target, then perhaps I will be rewarded. If I miss it, then I may be punished for it.

There are many things I fantasize about from a control perspective. I enjoy being obedient and having this diet adherence goal to work towards and it really does help me focus. I wish there were more day to day protocols that prevented me from breaking with the diet plan. An example of this would be being required to ask Sir’s permission to ‘MISS’ any given meal target. This would remind me that Sir ultimately controls the outcome so long as His boy remains structured and obedient. We have only just begun to experiment with rewards and punishments for missing diet control targets. To date, this boy has always hit the target that Sir sets, so this really is a powerful tool to help me stay on target.

Thus far, I have seen growth on this plan. The real control dynamic comes when I report growth targets to Sir that demonstrate that this diet is working towards the goals that He has approved. So far this year I am cutting, seeing chest growth, and improvements in arm, shoulder and thigh size. None of this happens fast, but the numbers are trending in the right direction, which means that my discipline and focus are driving towards Sir’s desired outcomes.

You can see current diet compliance details for boy s37 on the jockboydiary blog – this is where he tracks health and fitness progress on a day to day basis.

What are Y/your trials and tribulations with dieting and remaining consistent to support growth targets? Have Y/you experimented with Dom/sub dynamics related to diet control? If so, what have Y/you found that works well? What do Y/you fantasize about in terms of health and fitness control?

February 22, 2025
Chastity Q&A

“Success is the sum of small efforts, repeated day in and day out.” – Robert J. Collier

In this blog entry, Sir Zuegi and boy s37 will respond to five questions about s37’s chastity service. Both Sir Zuegi and s37 are aware of each other’s questions, but will not have visibility into each other’s answers until this is published.

Question 1:

s37: What does it mean to boy s37 to be locked in chastity for Sir Zuegi?

>> I view being locked in chastity as one of the greatest gestures and sacrifices I can make to Sir as His disciplined leatherboy. My suppression of my own sexual impulses for Him is a testament of my commitment and my willingness to put His needs before my own.

We recently attended a class at CLAW LA, where a Dom/sub couple were presenting on their dynamic, and the Dom showcased His sub’s locked cock in the class by pulling it out from his jock pouch. His Sir then said, “I have the dick, and he has the hole.” It was a perfect display of power play exchange between a Dom and His sub, and it is how I feel about my privilege to serve Sir in chastity and demonstrate my willingness to serve.

Sir Zuegi: What does it mean to Sir Zuegi to lock His boy s37 in chastity?

>> It means having control over both his sexual and mental desires. Its restricting access and making him think of me with a physical reminder.

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Question 2:

s37: How often does boy s37 get to unlock, and how does it feel to be unlocked?

>> As I write this, I am unlocked and on an airplane sitting next to Sir. I dislike being unlocked, because when I am unlocked it is much harder for me to maintain sub headspace and it forces me to be more self disciplined and not to give in to temptation. Having sexual urges while being unlocked means staying focused on the fact that Sir has complete control over my dick even when I’m not caged for Him. Is this good training for His boy? Yes, but I definitely prefer feeling the safety of the cage when Sir has me locked and He holds the key.

Sir Zuegi: How often does Sir Zuegi allow His boy to unlock, and how does it feel to You for s37 to be unlocked?

>> I prefer he’s only unlocked when necessary, like for travel or practical reasons. I prefer boy to be locked and I feel when he is unlocked his mindspace isn’t the same.

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Question 3:

s37: Is it okay for boy s37 to ask or beg to be unlocked, and if allowed to unlock, does this mean that boy s37 is then allowed to cum?

>> There is an unwritten rule between us that I do not beg to be unlocked and I only ask to be unlocked when appropriate, such as when passing through airport security. As a sub, I hate begging – it isn’t my thing, and I’m not the type of sub that wants to emphasize my desires/needs over that of Sir’s. So, I don’t beg, and I don’t think that begging is something that Sir desires to see me do.

As for being allowed to cum – I do not associate being unlocked with that privilege. Another unwritten rule is that I ask Sir to cum and receive permission before I am allowed. To me, this is an important part of being a disciplined leatherboy.

Sir Zuegi: Is it okay for Your boy to ask or beg to be unlocked, and if allowed to unlock by You, does this mean Your boy s37 is then allowed to cum?

>> Yes it is ok to beg to be unlocked and I if granted I would approve of boy to cum as it is necessary to stay physically and mentally fit.

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Question 4:

s37: How does boy s37 remain committed to chastity service and ensure Sir Zuegi remains aware of His boy’s time in chastity?

>> Early on in the development of our dynamic we created a ritual/protocol that each morning I kneel in front of Sir, thank Him for being locked (or unlocked), and then let Him know how many days since my last allowed uncaged release. I have found this to be an incredibly important ritual, because it helps me maintain a service mindset. When I am not physically present in front of Sir, then I text Him this exchange.

Before this ritual was created, it was hard to keep my chastity top of mind and it almost became background. This ritual really allows me to connect with Sir each day over this privilege/sacrifice – and I am extremely thankful to have this moment with Him each day to demonstrate my dedication to being disciplined in this way.

Sir Zuegi: How does Sir Zuegi remain committed to His boy’s chastity service, and ensure His boy remains constantly aware of his time in chastity?

>> I require he remains locked or asked to be unlocked even when we are separated.

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Question 5:

s37: What is the one change boy s37 would like to see with chastity service that he has not yet communicated to Sir Zuegi?

>> As a good leatherboy, I think I should feel thankful to be locked full time and to suppress all my inner desires to feel pleasure through my locked cock. However, there is a part of me that still wants to feel pleasure. My desire would be to experience edging either as denial or as part of some form of gratification as part of my chastity service. What I would get from this is two fold – demonstrating my ability to control orgasm for Sir by only cumming with His approval, and to satisfy a need to still feel pleasure knowing full well that it might only lead to frustration. However, I feel that both aspects would demonstrate my dedication to being a disciplined leatherboy.

Sir Zuegi: What is the one change Sir Zuegi would like to see with chastity service that He has not yet communicated to His boy?

>> When unlocked boy has his device near him as a reminder that even though he is unlocked he will be locked again.

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Check s37’s current chastity lock status.

Are you locked in chastity or a Dom/keyholder for someone locked? If so, what role does chastity play in Y/your dynamic, and what is Y/your favorite aspect of chastity play?

February 15, 2025