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  • Achieving Fitness Goals: May 2025 Results

    Achieving Fitness Goals: May 2025 Results

    “Be not afraid of growing slowly; be afraid only of standing still.“

    Each month, boy s37 will report results based on the fitness goals that SIR Zuegi has approved for us. His boy will then present the results to SIR and get further instructions and any rewards or punishments for the outcomes delivered. Learn more about our Dom/sub fitness training dynamic and how these results are actioned on.

    boy s37 results –

    ORDER Name: Body Measures and Pics
    Due Date: 2025-05-31

    SIR’S COMMAND: This boy will submit for body image and measurement reporting on the first of each month. Body measures will be promptly recorded and reported to Sir with body measure changes trended over time.

    Measures Completion Details: Sir, Your boy is reporting the following measures details for the May 2025 training period Sir.

    Results Comparison: 

    Outcome Trends: < open trends >

    Notable measure changes in MAY:

    • 1.5 lb increase in bodyweight & .1% decrease in body fat %
    • 1.12 increase in belly
    • .22″ increase in chest
    • Decrease in L/R thigh size & L/R arm size

    Challenges & Observations:

    • Very challenging month and this boy wasn’t consistent due to illness and some other challenges. Workouts and diet were not tracked well and therefore not reported for May.
    • Increase in chest and shoulders shows continued upper body progress.
    • Increase in belly size indicates that this boy lacked in diet adherence.
    • Decrease in thigh and arm size show muscle groups that need better activation.
    • A lot of travel in June, and therefore looking to be accountable for some travel-friendly physical activity to help stay focused on Sir’s approved goals.

    Sir, Your boy requests Your review of these results and awaits any further feedback or instructions.

    SIR’s feedback and instructions: 

    • Continue with pushup exercises as you have seen growth. Stay focused on physical activity and diet during our travel period.

    Learn more about s37’s fitness journey on the jockboydiary.

    SIR Zuegi results –

    Results Comparison: 

    Outcome Trends: < open trends >

    Notable body measure changes in MAY:

    • Decrease in body fat % by .6 and increase in body weight.
    • Increase in L/R arm size
    • Low change in thigh size
    • Minimal decrease in chest size

    s37’s Observations for SIR:

    • Decrease in BF% with a slight increase in weight shows continued muscle mass development.
    • Small change in thigh size trend over time indicates additional focus area.
    • Gap for BF% goal indicates a need for increased cardio.

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    What do Y/you think about boy s37’s progress towards Sir Zeugi’s approved goals? Contact us or leave a comment.

  • Navigating My Kink Journey: Finding Authenticity

    Navigating My Kink Journey: Finding Authenticity

    Success comes from curiosity, concentration, perseverance and self-criticism. – Albert Einstein

    I have had many new experiences in the last 60 days, each of which could be its own blog entry.  I appeared in full formal leather uniform in public with Sir for the very first time in March!  I volunteered for a local Avatar leather club BDSM play party – which was my first time ever volunteering for a leather event or attending a public play party!  My Sir and I participated in a local community leather social get together to meet folks in our local community.  And, we attended CLAW 25 in Cleveland, where I saw a spectacular presentation on boxing which absolutely blew my mind (who knew there were others that shared a boxing/fight kink)! I even learned some new fast and quick rope tie bondage techniques which really piqued my bondage interests.

    And, you ask, how do I feel about all of this?  OVERWHELMED!

    Let’s start back at the beginning…. back in mid 2024, I joined a book club hosted by the Chicago Leather Archive & Museum, and I committed to reading and reviewing three books – Real Service by Raven Kaldera & Joshua Tenpenny, Protocols – A Variety of View: A Power Exchange Resource Book by Bob Rubel & L.C. Morgynn and The Deep Psychology of BDSM and Kink by Douglas Thomas.  What transpired after this new learning has been a rapid pace and aggressive growth journey that I still find myself on to this day.  From all of this new learning, I concluded that I need to be more authentic with myself and that I need to pursue my full identity by embracing leather.

    I have been kink-positive my entire adult life.  I’d pull out my kink identity just long enough to fulfill a need and then quickly retreat back to my socially acceptable buttoned-up adult self.  I think a lot of younger kinksters probably identify with this – it is what many of us do to maintain an interest in kink while keeping it neatly compartmentalized.  But, what characteristic traits are we shutting out by repeatedly denying ourselves the freedom of expression and an ability to live authentically?

    Flash forward to CLAW 25, and I had the pleasure to attend a talk titled, History and Legacy of Leather Clubs in the United States by Jake Woods and Dr. X-Ray.  Their presentation covered leather club history from 1885 to present.  This was a damn good presentation, and what stuck out for me was the repeating themes – the need for belonging, brotherhood and camaraderie.  140 years have passed, but little has changed as far as the same basic human needs – a sense of belonging and a need for self expression and camaraderie.

    The journey that I am on to find my leather self is presenting me with many complex challenges and emotions.  I have put a lot of pressure on myself to make this transformation real and to get results.  There is also a sense of urgency brought on by our ever changing politically charged world.  But, as much as I like to be in control of things – I am not in control of when or how this is going to happen.  During the leather club presentation at CLAW, Jake Woods asked the audience, “Where are you on your leather journey?” – and a giant light bulb went on in my head!  I am on this journey – I am seeking new learning – I am building new connections – I am in the struggle working hard at making change!

    So, what have I learned, you ask?  Sometimes you have to slow down to speed up.  I need to take more time to feel, to sense and to let these new experiences wash over.  As much as I want to control this journey – that’s just not the way this works.  This journey controls you.  You make yourself vulnerable enough and open enough – and the change happens.  Trust in the process 🙂

  • Achieving Fitness Goals: March 2025 Results

    Achieving Fitness Goals: March 2025 Results

    “You can, you should, and if you’re brave enough to start, you will.”

    Each month, boy s37 will report results based on the fitness goals that SIR Zuegi has approved for us. His boy will then present the results to SIR and get further instructions and any rewards or punishments for the outcomes delivered. Learn more about our Dom/sub fitness training dynamic and how these results are actioned on.

    boy s37 results –

    ORDER Name: Body Measures and Pics
    Due Date: 2025-03-31

    SIR’S COMMAND: This boy will submit for body image and measurement reporting on the first of each month. Body measures will be promptly recorded and reported to SIR with body measure changes trended over time.

    Measures Completion Details: SIR, YOUR boy is reporting the following measures details for the March 2025 training period SIR.

    Results Comparison: 

    Outcome Trends: < open trends >

    Order’s given by SIR for MAR:

    • Diet compliant at 85% or greater for all meals >> SIR, Your boy delivered a diet adherence of 88.6% for MAR and exceeded Your set target SIR. 65% of meals tracked in MAR compared to 88% in FEB – reduction due to travel disruptions.
    • Goal of stretching >> Your boy stretched 7 times in March, or for 33% of all completed workouts.

    Notable measure changes in MAR:

    • .2 lb increase in weight
    • .6% body fat increase
    • Small increase in waist and hip size
    • Small decreases in chest, shoulders and L/R calfs
    • # of workouts completed 21, consistent with February

    Challenges & Observations:

    • Very flat results for March. This boy is proposing an increase in the number of weekly pushups as well as improved cardio work in April. # of days on diet adherence also needs improvement.
    • Having more hip and knee pain than is normal, and looking to switch up strength training exercises in April to incorporate more calisthenics with less weight load (more reps, less weight). Planning to stick with stretching routines, and propose at or above 33% of workouts.
    • Would like to propose setting a target for cardio workouts completed with Sir for April to stay on target with His order.

    SIR, Your boy requests Your review of these results and awaits any further instructions or rewards/punishments for this boy’s results towards Your approved goals SIR.

    SIR’s instructions and rewards and/or punishments: 

    • Continue focus on stretching, at least once a week
    • Increase number of joint cardio/HIT workouts
    • Diet compliance of 85%

    Learn more about s37’s fitness journey on the jockboydiary.

    SIR Zuegi results –

    Results Comparison: 

    Outcome Trends: < open trends >

    Order’s given by SIR for MAR:

    • Cardio circuits for both of us to complete >> Your boy prepared these workouts, and we did these together a couple of times in March.

    Notable body measure changes in MAR:

    • Decrease in body weight by 1.1lb
    • .Decrease in body fat by .1%
    • Small increase in hip size
    • Small decrease in thigh and arms

    s37’s Observations for SIR:

    • Closer tracking of protein intake to ensure that Sir is getting growth results while cutting BF%.
    • More cardio/HIT workouts.

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    What do Y/you think about boy s37’s progress towards Sir Zeugi’s approved goals? Contact us or leave a comment.

  • Bootblacking: Elevating the Experience

    Bootblacking: Elevating the Experience

    “Nothing ever becomes real till it is experienced.” – John Keats

    Both my Dom and I enjoy boots and boot worship a lot! He likes to wear them, and I like to be under them 😉 So much so that I have taken up bootblacking and have been learning new skills by caring for all of Sir’s boots and leathers.

    Recently, I came across this fun cigar sex post on bsky, and it got me thinking about equivalents for boot worship…

    … what would a similar list look like for boot worship? I decided that deserved some time and attention 😈. I wrote this list of ideas from a submissive bootblack perspective (me) – serving Sir’s boots as His bootblack in training – enjoy ~

    1. Your bootblack making You a drink or providing You with beers or whiskey during a bootblack session.
    2. A bootblack fetching Sir a smoke or lighting His cigar during a session.
    3. Your bootblack acting as Sir’s footstool before or after a bootblacking session.
    4. Your bootblack tied up or restrained and required to beg to clean Sir’s boots.
    5. Allowing my bootblack to unlock his cage and edge himself from time to time during a bootblacking session. (perhaps using shoe grease?)
    6. Allowing and encouraging my boy to smell Sir’s boots during a bootblack session.
    7. My boy wearing a gas mask and taking in the must/scent of one of Sir’s boots while he cleans them.
    8. Sir stroking His cock in front of His boy during a bootblack session. (preferably while His boy is locked in chastity)
    9. Allowing boy to worship Sir’s cock and/or balls during a bootblacking session.
    10. Spitting on my boy during a bootblacking session.
    11. Spitting in my boy’s mouth so he can spit polish Sir’s boots with the saliva.
    12. Allowing my boy to stimulate himself by riding a dildo during a bootblack session.
    13. Using restraints on a bootblack to make the job more difficult or impossible to complete.
    14. Timing a bootblack session as a means to determine the length of an activity or punishment. (perhaps without the boy knowing he is being timed?)
    15. Forcing a boy to apply conditioner or grease with his tongue. (with edible non-toxic product)
    16. Branding my boy with a footprint (tattoo, sticker, or with a boot print w/ black ink)
    17. Writing bootboy/bootblack/bootslut on my boy with a permanent marker.
    18. Plugging my boy before, during or after a bootblack session.
    19. Fucking my boy during or after a bootblack session.
    20. Beating my boy with my newly cleaned boots.
    21. Telling my boy he might get fucked depending on the quality of the shine or some other session parameter.
    22. Having my boy act as my urinal during a bootblack session.
    23. Taking pictures of my boy during a bootblacking session.
    24. Having my boy post a pic of my cleaned boots on social media upon completion.
    25. Requiring my boy to take Sir to dinner after a bootblacking session with Sir in His newly shined boots.
    26. Requiring my boy to do pushups at random times during a bootblack session.
    27. Allowing my boy to hump my boots until he orgasms after a bootblack session 😈. <yeah, that happened – TY Sir!>
    28. …and the list goes on…

    What other ideas do you have – post them in the comments! Have you tried some of these? Share your experience in the comments!

  • Exploring the Art of Bootblacking: A Journey of Connection

    Exploring the Art of Bootblacking: A Journey of Connection

    “Your connections to all the things around you literally define who you are.” – Aaron O’Connell

    My interest with bootblacking is a pretty recent development. I decided I wanted to try my hand at bootblacking after reading the Leatherboy Handbook by Vincent L. Andrews. I felt that leather care and the art of bootblacking would be a good way for me to connect with my need to serve. 

    I am a pretty geeky guy, and I love anything technical that requires a fair bit of detail. Flash back 20 years and you’d find me in my home darkroom developing film and making photography prints. I love working with my hands, and being part of the process of creating something. Bootblacking satisfies this part of my brain and given me needed focus. 

    Serving as my Dom’s bootblack has been a deeply rewarding experience. I love connecting with Him through His boots and leathers, and it has created many deeply intimate experiences between us.

    I do wish to expand beyond Sir’s boots and try my hand at blacking boots at an event someday. I’m not in a rush to do that, because I have a lot to learn, and I do not wish to short circuit the process – as it is the journey and not the destination. I want to continue working with the products and develop better technique. I also want to meet others in the community that share the same love of service. 

    My greatest desire is to learn to connect – spiritually – through bootblacking. Not just the application, the buffing and the rubbing – but the emotional and spiritual connection you make with someone while you are caring for them. The feeling through your fingers, the scent of the product mixing with their leathers, and the sensation you feel in that moment while you practice this craft. 

    Blacking Sir’s boots is often a very erotic experience for me, it is definitely one of the ways I emotionally and sexually connect with Sir. This process makes me want to be my very best for Him – and this gets reflected in the final shine. 

    I have developed an erotic fixation for Huberd’s shoe grease – Sir knows this well, and He has applied it to my body during scenes – it almost immediately draws out the most amazing sexual endorphins. This is one of my favorite products, and the one I enjoy using the most. 

    I want to grow as a bootblack.  I want to keep connecting with Sir, and I wish to be allowed to eventually take this practice beyond His boots. I also want to try my hand at leathercraft – I have repaired one of His uniform items, and I want to grow that and be able to craft other things from scratch. 

    Growing as a bootblack has been a fantastic way for me to develop as a service submissive.  I also like that bootblacks come in many forms, both sub and Dom. I believe that this practice has given me better discipline, and it is an outlet for my need to serve in some capacity. I feel a deep sense of pride when I have my shine box and Sir sits for this service.  The connection we create through this process is really quite special and something I greatly look forward to. Perhaps one day you too will sit before me, and when you do, I will be sure to give it my best – so that you can look your best!

    What are your interests in bootblacking – and have you sat for a bootblack? What has the experience been like for you?

  • Embracing BDSM: Navigating Dom/sub Dynamic Challenges

    Embracing BDSM: Navigating Dom/sub Dynamic Challenges

    The only person you are destined to become is the person you decide to be. – Deb Sofield

    My Dom and I are both kinky people, and we have been since the day we met. In fact, kink is what brought us together from the time we first cruised each other on recon. We each have a vast list of kinks we like, and thankfully, we share many in common. Our interests go well beyond our kinks, and as with most relationships, it requires change and focus to keep up with the changing times. Late last year, we started to embrace BDSM, and specifically the formation of a Dom/sub dynamic between us. While we enjoy leather, sports gear, and a myriad of other fetishes, we had not yet evolved into the arena of full power play dynamics and more pronounced roles as Dom and sub.

    Making that switch to a BDSM Dom/sub style relationship dynamic has been no small effort, and we continue to learn, experiment and discover ways to make this work for us.  I will share some of my greatest challenges with this as a sub, and reflect on the things I am doing to better myself and our relationship.

    Our situation is perhaps a little unique, because we are in a committed long-term relationship that is working to implement pronounced Dom/sub roles.  While we have always been into certain aspects of kink play, many of our relationship constructs were more ‘vanilla’ in nature. We do all the things couples like to do, like buying a house, arguing over paint colors, and getting groceries together. Super kinky right?!  No, in fact, there are a bunch of mundane normal “life” things that can be pretty boring, stressful and real kink killers. Discussing finances, worrying about a career, planning for healthcare – all real buzz killers. The day to day mechanics of commitment can be challenging at best and can test any relationship.

    Now add BDSM to that mix and things get real tricky. Part of that D/s dynamic is being true to your role, and for me that is a submissive leatherboy.  I’m a pretty short fused submissive with a decent amount of self confidence and a love of managing and controlling many things in my day to day life. Knowing how to be submissive and how to let go of having full control is a real challenge for me, because frankly, I am not entirely subservient in all ways.  At times, that has left me questioning my role – am I really a submissive if I can be so controlling?  Sexually, I’m a bottom, but that doesn’t directly imply total submissiveness. After many years of soul searching, I have concluded that yes, I am submissive, but with some real quirks. What truly motivates me is being controlled by outside influences, and one of those key influencers is my Dom. Deep down, I want to please, and I crave that feeling of doing and achieving for someone else.  

    Knowing you are a submissive and acting like one is two different things. We’ll be going through our day to day lives, with me wearing my collar as a symbol of Sir’s ownership and my commitment to Him, but I still veer off path. We’ll be doing housework or some other mundane task, and I will push back or be argumentative. Why?  Because I’m an opinionated human with faults, but this action almost always kills my submissive headspace and just makes me feel lost and disconnected.  So, why do I do it – why does it happen over and over?  It is habit and we humans tend to fall back to what we know regardless of how it makes us feel.  Even though it degrades my headspace and works against everything I am working hard to achieve, it happens over and over. And, it doesn’t just create challenges for me, it creates role challenges for my Dom. So, how does one resolve this?

    They say the first step is to fixing something is admitting you have a problem. So, here we are, step one – check.  The next step is putting effort into correcting the problem. A hallmark of BDSM and the D/s dynamic is behavior modification – or more specifically, behavior emulation of a desired role. I desire to be a better sub, one that is easier to live with, one that obeys, and one that works really hard to earn Sir’s trust and respect. To achieve that in a 24×7 dynamic, means respecting and honoring the little things – the really mundane stuff like making the bed, which Sir requires of His boy. It isn’t just the kinky-sexy stuff, but also the little day to day stuff.  It’s caring about the details and executing in a way that respects Sir’s wishes and demonstrates the utmost respect for Him and for my role.  It is respecting myself and working to achieve outcomes that make me feel good about who I am becoming – His leatherboy.

    They say it is the journey and not the destination, and in terms of BDSM, nothing could be more true. We aren’t born who we want to be – we become that image of who we want to be by emulating the behaviors that we most desire to posses. I desire to be less controlling, more caring, and a true leatherboy – mind, body and soul.

    There is no perfect solution to this challenge for me yet. So far, I have learned to observe and to communicate. Through these practices, I grow closer to my goal, and with time and energy, I believe our D/s dynamic will grow stronger.  I wouldn’t trade this growth opportunity and all of its challenges for anything in the world.

  • Achieving Fitness Goals: February 2025 Results

    Achieving Fitness Goals: February 2025 Results

    “A goal without a plan is just a wish.”

    Each month, boy s37 will report results based on the fitness goals that SIR Zuegi has approved for us. His boy will then present the results to SIR and get further instructions and any rewards or punishments for the outcomes delivered. Learn more about our Dom/sub fitness training dynamic and how these results are actioned on.

    boy s37 results –

    ORDER Name: Body Measures and Pics
    Due Date: 2025-02-28

    SIR’S COMMAND: This boy will submit for body image and measurement reporting on the first of each month. Body measures will be promptly recorded and reported to SIR with body measure changes trended over time.

    Measures Completion Details: SIR, YOUR boy is reporting the following measures details for the February 2025 training period SIR.

    Results Comparison: 

    Outcome Trends: < open trends >

    Order’s given by SIR for FEB:

    • For FEB-2025 You gave Your boy a target of maintaining diet compliant at 85% or greater for all meals >> SIR, Your boy delivered a diet adherence of 87.2% for FEB and exceeded Your set target SIR. 88% of meals tracked in FEB compared to 58% in January – demonstrating an improvement in diet compliance while traveling.
    • Improvement in the number of completed workouts >> 21 workouts completed in FEB compared to 18 in JAN – demonstrating an increase in the number of workouts while traveling.

    Notable measure changes in FEB:

    • .42″ increase in chest size (39.52″)
    • .38″ decrease in waist size (33.68″)
    • 1.1% decrease in calculated body fat percentage (15.9%)
    • Small increases in left and right thighs.

    Challenges & Observations:

    • Some fatigue in shoulders, triceps and elbow due to potential over training. Therefore, this jock boy is proposing scaling back pushups to 700-800 per week to allow for improved recovery. This will be achieved with greater tracking of total pushups each week.
    • Propose increasing stretching and basic yoga work to improve recovery and reduce stress.
    • This jock boy proposes changing up leg and arm exercises in MAR to promote greater lower body and arm growth.
    • This jock boy proposes improving endurance/cardio work, and would like to start boxing gym training in March. Goal is to identify a local boxing gym and evaluate by end of month.

    SIR, Your boy requests Your review of these results and awaits any further instructions or rewards/punishments for this boy’s results towards Your approved goals SIR.

    SIR’s instructions and rewards and/or punishments: 

    • I propose creating a cardio circuit for both of us to perform together once a week
    • boy will begin yoga and stretch training for help with recovery and injury.
    • Maintain 85% diet tracking for March.

    Learn more about s37’s fitness journey on the jockboydiary.

    SIR Zuegi results –

    Results Comparison: 

    Outcome Trends: < open trends >

    Order’s given by SIR for FEB:

    • My boy will create cardio workouts for me. >> This boy did not consistently follow through with this order, and will need to refocus on this area should SIR wish to continue with this going forward.

    Notable body measure changes in FEB:

    • Increase in thigh size: L – .52″ & R – .28″ (22.74″ & 22.86″)
    • .24″ increase in hip size (37.75″)
    • .76″ decrease in waist (36.71″)
    • 1.4% decrease in calculated body fat percent (23.7%)

    s37’s Observations for SIR:

    • Stay the course, but consider diversifying upper body exercises to promote growth.
    • Closer tracking of protein intake to ensure that Sir is getting growth results while cutting BF%.

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    What do Y/you think about boy s37’s progress towards Sir Zeugi’s approved goals? Contact us or leave a comment.

  • Chastity Q&A

    Chastity Q&A

    “Success is the sum of small efforts, repeated day in and day out.” – Robert J. Collier

    In this blog entry, Sir Zuegi and boy s37 will respond to five questions about s37’s chastity service. Both Sir Zuegi and s37 are aware of each other’s questions, but will not have visibility into each other’s answers until this is published.   

     

    Question 1:

    s37: What does it mean to boy s37 to be locked in chastity for Sir Zuegi?

    >> I view being locked in chastity as one of the greatest gestures and sacrifices I can make to Sir as His disciplined leatherboy. My suppression of my own sexual impulses for Him is a testament of my commitment and my willingness to put His needs before my own. 

    We recently attended a class at CLAW LA, where a Dom/sub couple were presenting on their dynamic, and the Dom showcased His sub’s locked cock in the class by pulling it out from his jock pouch.  His Sir then said, “I have the dick, and he has the hole.”  It was a  perfect display of power play exchange between a Dom and His sub, and it is how I feel about my privilege to serve Sir in chastity and demonstrate my willingness to serve.  

    Sir Zuegi: What does it mean to Sir Zuegi to lock His boy s37 in chastity?

    >> It means having control over both his sexual and mental desires. Its restricting access and making him think of me with a physical reminder.

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    Question 2:

    s37: How often does boy s37 get to unlock, and how does it feel to be unlocked?

    >> As I write this, I am unlocked and on an airplane sitting next to Sir.  I dislike being unlocked, because when I am unlocked it is much harder for me to maintain sub headspace and it forces me to be more self disciplined and not to give in to temptation. Having sexual urges while being unlocked means staying focused on the fact that Sir has complete control over my dick even when I’m not caged for Him. Is this good training for His boy?  Yes, but I definitely prefer feeling the safety of the cage when Sir has me locked and He holds the key. 

    Sir Zuegi: How often does Sir Zuegi allow His boy to unlock, and how does it feel to You for s37 to be unlocked?

    >> I prefer he’s only unlocked when necessary, like for travel or practical reasons. I prefer boy to be locked and I feel when he is unlocked his mindspace isn’t the same.

    —

    Question 3:

    s37: Is it okay for boy s37 to ask or beg to be unlocked, and if allowed to unlock, does this mean that boy s37 is then allowed to cum?

    >> There is an unwritten rule between us that I do not beg to be unlocked and I only ask to be unlocked when appropriate, such as when passing through airport security. As a sub, I hate begging – it isn’t my thing, and I’m not the type of sub that wants to emphasize my desires/needs over that of Sir’s. So, I don’t beg, and I don’t think that begging is something that Sir desires to see me do. 

    As for being allowed to cum – I do not associate being unlocked with that privilege.  Another unwritten rule is that I ask Sir to cum and receive permission before I am allowed.  To me, this is an important part of being a disciplined leatherboy.

    Sir Zuegi: Is it okay for Your boy to ask or beg to be unlocked, and if allowed to unlock by You, does this mean Your boy s37 is then allowed to cum?

    >> Yes it is ok to beg to be unlocked and I if granted I would approve of boy to cum as it is necessary to stay physically and mentally fit.

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    Question 4:

    s37: How does boy s37 remain committed to chastity service and ensure Sir Zuegi remains aware of His boy’s time in chastity?

    >> Early on in the development of our dynamic we created a ritual/protocol that each morning I kneel in front of Sir, thank Him for being locked (or unlocked), and then let Him know how many days since my last allowed uncaged release. I have found this to be an incredibly important ritual, because it helps me maintain a service mindset.  When I am not physically present in front of Sir, then I text Him this exchange.

    Before this ritual was created, it was hard to keep my chastity top of mind and it almost became background. This ritual really allows me to connect with Sir each day over this privilege/sacrifice – and I am extremely thankful to have this moment with Him each day to demonstrate my dedication to being disciplined in this way.

    Sir Zuegi: How does Sir Zuegi remain committed to His boy’s chastity service, and ensure His boy remains constantly aware of his time in chastity?

    >> I require he remains locked or asked to be unlocked even when we are separated.

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    Question 5:

    s37: What is the one change boy s37 would like to see with chastity service that he has not yet communicated to Sir Zuegi?

    >> As a good leatherboy, I think I should feel thankful to be locked full time and to suppress all my inner desires to feel pleasure through my locked cock. However, there is a part of me that still wants to feel pleasure. My desire would be to experience edging either as denial or as part of some form of gratification as part of my chastity service.  What I would get from this is two fold – demonstrating my ability to control orgasm for Sir by only cumming with His approval, and to satisfy a need to still feel pleasure knowing full well that it might only lead to frustration. However, I feel that both aspects would demonstrate my dedication to being a disciplined leatherboy.

    Sir Zuegi: What is the one change Sir Zuegi would like to see with chastity service that He has not yet communicated to His boy?

    >> When unlocked boy has his device near him as a reminder that even though he is unlocked he will be locked again.

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    Check s37’s current chastity lock status.

    Are you locked in chastity or a Dom/keyholder for someone locked?  If so, what role does chastity play in Y/your dynamic, and what is Y/your favorite aspect of chastity play?

  • Achieving Fitness Goals: January 2025 Results

    Achieving Fitness Goals: January 2025 Results

    “Setting goals is the first step in turning the invisible into the visible.”

    We recently posted the blog entry Health & Fitness as a Dynamic, which further describes how we have incorporated BDSM into our health and fitness dynamic. Each month, boy s37 will post combined results based on the goals that Sir Zuegi has approved. The following are results reported for January 2025:

    boy s37 results –

    ORDER Name: Body Measures and Pics
    Due Date: 2025-01-31

    SIR’S COMMAND: This boy will submit for body image and measurement reporting on the first of each month. The boy will accurately report weight in pounds, and waist, hip, abdomen, chest, neck, shoulder, left/right thigh, left/right arm, and left/right calf circumference measures in inches, and the boy’s calculated body fat %. These body measures will be promptly recorded and reported to SIR with body measure changes trended over time.

    Measures Completion Details: SIR, YOUR boy is reporting the following measures details for the January 2025 training period SIR –

    Current and Last Month Measures Comparison: 

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    Measurement Trends: < open trends >

    Your boy’s general observations:

    Order’s given by SIR in DEC:

    • SIR, for JAN-2025 You gave Your boy a target of maintaining diet compliant at 85% or greater for all meals.  >> SIR, Your boy delivered a meal target of 91.61% for JAN and exceeded Your set target SIR. By comparison, Your boy improved diet compliance by 5.81% over DEC-2024 results SIR.
      • 9 days in January not diet tracked as a result of travel.
    • SIR, for JAN-2025 You asked for more chest focus to see a size increase.  >> Your boy added a dedicated chest-day workout day each week in addition to doing 100+ pushups on all other workout days.

    Workout consistency in JAN:

    • SIR, Your boy missed 0 scheduled workouts in JAN. 
    • SIR, Your boy delivered 18 workouts in JAN, the same as DEC.  This was lower than expected due to travel in JAN.
    • This boy had 13 rest days in January due to travel, which was higher than average.

    Notable body measure changes in JAN:

    • Increase in chest size by half an inch.
    • Increase in body-fat likely caused by number of days not on diet in January.

    Feedback & Challenges in JAN:

    • January was very challenging because too many days were not tracked with no workouts during travel periods.  I need to find better ways to sustain some diet and physical activity during travel, because it makes it very hard to regain momentum after disruption.
    • Would like to start incorporating the boxing gym in February – both in Chicago and at home.

    SIR, Your boy requests Your review of these results and awaits any further instructions or feedback regarding this boy’s performance against the goals You have set SIR.

    SIR’s Instructions & Feedback: 

    • Continue to maintain diet adherence of 85% or better for February.
    • Improvement in number of workouts completed for the month of February.

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    SIR Zuegi results –

    Current and Last Month Measures Comparison: 

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    Measurement Trends: < open trends >

    General measure observations:

    Order’s given by SIR for the month of JAN:

    • My boy will design two cardio workouts per week for me to complete.  These will be up to an hour in length and can be made up of a mix of HIT, boxing and other cardio type exercises. >> Not great progress on this.  Developed an initial set of workouts at the beginning of the month. Do You wish to proceed with these , and if so, at what interval?
    • Tracker for meals, 1, 3, 5 and 6 >> Diet tracking was implemented to assist with better meal prep/eating habits.

    Notable body measure changes in JAN:

    • Increase in chest size by half an inch.
    • Increases in thigh and calf size.
    • Increase in body-fat %.
    • 77% diet adherence in January.

    Recommendations for FEB:

    • Recommend increasing cardio in order to balance calories with muscle gain.
    • Improved diet adherence with greater consistency across meals.

    Orders Given:

    • Continue to create cardio workouts.

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