Start of a New Year

“Your life is controlled by what you focus on.“

In August of 2024, Sir Zeugi and His boy s37 sat down for what at the time seemed a very challenging conversation – “how do we incorporate BDSM into our relationship as a means to grow?”

Neither Sir nor I were new to kink, and in fact we had both been into kink for most of our adult lives.  However, life got busy, we both treated it as a part-time endeavor,  and we let ourselves fall into a vanilla rut.  Easy to let happen, and we knew it was time to make some changes.

Throughout the rest of 2024, we both sought new learning through books, blogs, podcasts and local leather and kink events.  Today, we are in route to establishing a full-time 24×7 Dom/sub dynamic based on BDSM and leathermen norms.  It has been quite a journey, and both of us are dedicated to expanding our relationship and furthering our experience through BDSM practices.

In December of 2024, my Dom, Sir Zuegi, approved the creation of this blog as part of a goal setting ritual.  The goal He approved is:

I expect my boy to maintain a public facing blog that supports writings around my goals for him, and other topics of interest that I assign and approve for him.

And with that, this blog, Booted and Bound was sanctioned into existence.  Throughout 2025, it is my assigned mission to build and maintain this blog for Sir Zuegi, and you, our audience.  It is my intention to share our experience with building, implementing and growing a leathermen household.  My goal is to share our experience in the hopes that it can inspire or be used as a resource by others in the community.

To learn about Sir Zuegi and boy s37, be sure to check out the blog about page.  Stay tuned for an upcoming post that will detail all of the goals that Sir Zuegi has approved for focus in 2025.  Until then, Happy New Year, and I look forward to engaging with all of you!

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